It seems like every woman wouldn’t mind to share a kiss with Luke Bryan. Well, the lady that gets to kiss him regularly, his wife Caroline, says it’s something you would probably have to do yourself, like she did.

“He was always a gentleman,” she tells People Country she says of their time dating at Georgia Southern. “We hung out as friends and he never made a move on me. I kissed him first! He was always scared of making a girl feel uncomfortable, he wouldn’t cross a line.”

When they met, Luke was a senior and Caroline was a freshman. She is also glad the world is now getting a chance to know Luke like she and their kids do. “In college, we used to go dancing in a club til 4 a.m. and he’s just as silly at home as he is on stage. He walks around dancing all day, just being goofy.”